Performance and Personal Development

No matter where we are in the world, it is the same everywhere - our attitude affects our thoughts, our thoughts can make or break us or just keep us in the same situation, experiencing the same thing ... over and over.

I believe that we are capable of doing more, loving more and contributing more than what we actually do right now. Everyone is challenged with the feeling of fear as we consider moving out of our comfort zone to create some sort of change.

We feel it when experiencing something new. Our fears are 'real', however, perhaps not rational. It's what we do, or don't do about our attitudes and thoughts that make all the difference.

Too many people that I've met are not satisfied with parts of their life. They're not in enough 'pain' to take action to do something about it and create even the smallest change in their world.

They tolerate a mediocre relationship siting " it's better for the kids"
They put up with a career because it's what they know or feel they're "too old to start something new"
Or keep doing the same thing in the business/sport/life because that's whats worked in the past.
Or worse, we're doing it this was because I was told to - even thought I know there's a better way, I just don't want to hurt their feelings.

It's familiar. It's comfortable. It's keeping the status quo.

We've been taught from a young age about right and wrong. Pass and fail. That 100%, winning and perfectionism are the goals to strive for. Well at least it was when I went to school.

We were conditioned from a young age that not getting things right or not being on the podium was not good enough. How was that possible for every kid in school to be first? or Dux? or Head of School? Or even a Prefect/Leader?

So somewhere at a young age, we agree to 'settle' because that helps us to understand and to aso avoid the pain of disappointment, of losing or not winning. And Wa-llah! We have a mindset, a belief programmed that will hang around and "serve" us to keep us "safe".

For everyone the feelings and the meanings we gave our 'failures' as youngsters is different. Each of us have these and they're different for us all.

So these programs we all have sit in our unconscious mind with the intention of keeping us "safe", keeping us in our comfort zones avoiding those painful feelings - so we're not inclinded to challenge ourselves and conitnually "push" through. It can be exhausting and also, there's the fear of the unknown. .....

What I've learned in my studies, life and business is what I'm offering to help you with.

If you're stuck, sick of feeling not as fulfilled or just plain unhappy in your current situation AND you're ready to make a change in your life, then we need to talk.

Email me at: paulamcs@gmail.com
Text me at: (+64) 027 235 4118

If you're in business and things aren't running as well as you'd like, I want to hear from you too. Because EVERYONE is worthy of
+ living a fulfilled life
+ experiencing regular joy and laughter
+ great health
+ loving relationship/s
+ confidence and courage in themselves


I look forward to supporting you along your jouney of Professional Development to help you reach your goals and dreams.

Message to arrange a time to talk and we'll take the next best step forward from there.

Nga Mihi
Paula

Paula McSporran - Personal Development
Ph: 027 235 4118
Email: paulamcs@gmail.com
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